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I know it is the second post

of the day but i thought it was

important to do this one too. 

:P

Its an interesting world , you know. Life has many ups and downs and everyone has to go through them. I am not writing this post for the sake of it. I am writing this post because of a friend of mine(please don't ask who{even to my mom and dad}. :p) is going through a tough situation and he doesn't know how to come out of it. 
If you believe that life is destined , then that is the greatest lie. You write your own destiny. Holding a pencil or a pen is something we learned only after we reached the age of 2-3 but we all had started writing OUR OWN destiny after we had opened our eyes. Even though initially our parents had helped up to hold the pen straight we were the ones writing it. 
Destiny is a word which we humans have created to fool each other. Destiny is in our own hands.
 Look at your hand. Some people believe the marks you see on your hand depicts how you live your life but it is really the marks you make that depicts your life. 

Everyone has their moments in life. It maybe that when i am having a great moment in my life someone else is having his worst but we shouldn't keep our heads down. We should look up, and only up. 
Pessimism isn't the answer to everything, and we have to understand that. Everyone has that moment in their life with which they think there is no use of living. They may even lock themselves in their room and keep themselves away from everyone else but that isn't going to help and that is what we have to understand. 
As from the Oscar winning movie Hugo - 
"If we think the world is a machine , then we are all its parts and whenever we get a machine, we get the exact amount of parts needed. No more, no less. That means everyone has a role to play in this world. "
Every part of a machine has its own function and is not of waste. But what happens if a part of a machine stops working? The whole machine stops. That is what we have to understand. We may think 'How will it make the difference?'. Well, it will . 
If a leg of a table thinks that it wouldn't make a difference if it were there in the world or not and goes away what will happen? The table will fall and then so will your importance. 

In the machine, if a part stops working what do we do?We call the mechanic who takes out the part which has stopped working and throws it away putting a new one. 
If an incident makes you feel very terrible , you may weep for some time but what you have to realize is that you have to stand back up. If you don't someone else will take your place.You won't have any importance. So stand up all of those who think they can't do it because it is all of you who have the largest to climb but it is all of you who have the eagerness to reach the top, to show the world that even you can do it without the help of those who have left you, who have broken your hearts and those who haven't trusted you. The advantage of falling at the bottom is huge. It is that you have nowhere else to go but up-up and up. 
Ignoring people and not talking to those around you won't make you feel better, it will only make you feel that no one cares about you making your situation more crucial. If you have people around you who can be there to help you with everything you need, to strive for gaining your happiness , then why give away such an opportunity. Take it and use it to your best. If you can't get up, then take help but don't just lay on the ground, engulfed by darkness.
Be Optimistic and show the world your inner capability. Then you will be remember by all as the one who stood up, even when everyone was pushing you down and then you stood up and everyone just saw you as you went past them and reach the top. 
Don't loose confidence, don't feel alone, don't think negative and express your emotions. If you do so , you will feel the change. I can't say anything more. Now it is your decision. The pen is in your hands and the canvas in front of you. It is your choice to accept it or decline.

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